The Practice of Spiritual Ignatian Conversation

1. Spiritual conversation is a great opportunity. Be prepared.

2. Be slow to speak. Be considerate and kind on matters discussed.

Be slow to speak. Be considerate and kind.

3. Listen quietly, to understand. Learn when to speak or be silent.

Be slow to speak, and only after having first listened quietly, so that you. may understand the meaning, leanings; and wishes of those who do not speak. Thus, you will better know when to speak and when to be silent.

4. Be free of attachment to your own opinion.

I should consider the reasons on both sides without showing any attachment to my own opinion, and try to avoid bringing dissatisfaction.

5. Do not cite authorities. Deal with everyone equally.

I should not cite anyone as supporting my opinion ... and I would deal with everyone on an equal basis, never taking sides with anyone.

6. In giving your opinion, speak with humility and sincerity.

If you ought not to be silent, then give your opinion with the greatest possible humility and end “with due respect for a better opinion.”

7. Accommodate to the conventicle of the other.

If I have something to say, it will be of great help to forget about my own leisure or lack of time-that is, my own convenience.

8. Ask the Spirit to descend with abundant gifts.

9. Awaken knowledge and love in souls.

Awaken in souls a thorough knowledge of themselves and a love of their Creator and Lord.

10. Adapt yourself to others.

First consider their temperaments and adapt yourselves to them. in the footsteps of Ignatius Ethos and Identity at Saint Ignatius College Geelong

With best wishes,

Paul Lewis

Deputy Principal – Staff, Identity and Operations